Yesterday was my friend Alekseyi’s birthday. It as all set up for him to meet me for lunch with the surprise of three other friends; the pastor of the American church that hosts the new Ukrainian church and the missions consultant and his wife. I got there first and got our table. The missions consultant and his wife came next and the pastor of the host church. After 20 minutes of waiting for the birthday boy, I called him.

He was finishing up helping a new family from Ukraine. He started to apologize suggesting maybe we could meet for coffee, but I told him to come now. He finally arrived with his wife Ruslana- 45 minutes late. We were happy to wait for him to bless and surprise him.

After I talked with him on the phone, the first time, and shared what was happening with the others, we laughed about the situation of trying to arrange a surprise for a man who seems to never slow down. 🙂

As we were eating lunch, I thought about what Alekseyi and Ruslana have been through the past few years. Fled war torn Ukraine to go to an unknown future, came to America to an unknown future, and now starting a new church. It makes me think of Abraham when God first called him in Genesis 12:1

The Lord had said to Abram, “Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you.”

God told Abraham to get going and that God would show him along the way. That has certainly been true for my friend Alekseyi and his family.

Happy Birthday Alekseyi.

Thank you for reading. God Bless.

15 responses to “45 Minutes Late to His Own Birthday Lunch”

  1. Late to his own surprise birthday lunch because he was helping others. 🙏May God sustain and continue to help your Ukrainian friends. Matt, you said something about gift cards, for war torn families arriving in Lincoln. Is this still a need?

    1. Yes. We are planning an event around Thanksgiving. Instead of giving Christmas gifts to children, we will give gift cards to Walmart to the parents so they can provide Christmas for their families

      1. I would love to help also, if possible and if so, can you send me the details journalingtomytruth@gmail.com .

      2. Thank you
        I emailed you 🙂

    2. Yes it is a need. I want to give them to Ukrainian families so they can have Christmas

  2. First, let me extend a Happy Birthday blessing to Mr. Alekseyi♥ Second, I want to say, what a blessing it is to have such amazing friends!! Their story of faith and trust is so inspiring, it shows how true God love is for us. How he never forsakes us or forgets us, even when we may doubt ourselves!! Lovely photos ♥ Blessed Mornings!!

    1. Amen God never forsakes or forgets us.

  3. I’m so glad the surprise lunch worked out. I love how you share these stories with us. It makes your blog personal and welcoming. 🤗

    1. Thank you little sister. How was your weekend?

      1. My weekend went well overall. We had a nice dinner with some of my husband’s family on Sunday night. But since my parents are walking through some stressful things, it brings worries. They don’t live nearby, so all I can do is pray. But prayer is powerful! Thank you for asking.

      2. Prayer is indeed powerful. Prayed for your parents

      3. Thank you so much, big brother!!! 🤗

  4. Surprise celebrations always bring surprises. It is wonderful you could all wait for the birthday man to come to his own party. He cares for so many and it was his time for honor at a party.

  5. A testament to the goodness we share with others when serving the needs of the Body. In the Lord’s eyes, such endeavors will never be late.

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