Tuesday evening in class we read an article about being happy and that being happy is a choice. That led to quite the discussion. Imagine a class of refugees and immigrants who know struggles in life that would cause despair reading someone’s opinion about happiness being a choice.

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One student asked me what I do to be happy and what I tell people. That led to a rare moment in my class. A few things I shared with them.

You honor the people you lost by building your life here.

Your story is not over. It is on a different path.

Then I shared about my life how I was sick and almost died and how that altered the course of my life. I shared with them that I understand how dramatic life changes can cause one to feel depressed. That led to sharing about how my prayer has been for Jesus to show me what he wants to me to do not why it happened to me. Why me prayers lead to depression. What do you want me to do prayers lead to direction from Jesus.

Then I shared that my faith made all the difference and that each morning my prayer is for help to be a blessing for my students.

It was one of those unplanned, unscripted moments that I will never forget.

In our culture, there is so much focus on being happy, on fleeting happiness. It is better to focus on having joy in the Lord.

Thank you for reading. God Bless.

8 responses to “Fleeting Happiness or Joy”

  1. I love how you opened up to your students and shared your story. And I couldn’t agree more, focusing on joy in the Lord is where it’s at! You’re an incredible teacher and inspiration. 🙌

    1. Thank you Ritish. My students are important to me

  2. Brother, these are the lessons that matter most in life. Often I’ve thought of Abraham Lincoln’s quote-“Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.” (or is that Karla’s translation?–don’t quote me) Like you, my faith in Jesus. I went through depression, sickness, despair, loss….he met me at the bottom. Once I was completely and utterly soaked in the Spirit (not just a little spot), I couldn’t help but let the joy out. There are times I feel down. Today, at the oncologist’s office, my bloodwork is not great, a bit icky because I chose to be out and about enjoying life…all of these moments don’t last as long anymore, Matt. I turn on praise music. Tell my mind to stop it’s stinkin’ thinkin’. Immediately, what can I do for someone else? our minds are powerful. And then add the power of the Spirit, and we can be immovable! I’m anchored in joy, brother. I’m glad you are, too! You’re a blessing to your students as I know they are to you! And a blessing to all of us!

    1. Little sister I am so proud of you for seeking the Lord while going through rough struggles with health.

      We can both hold on to the promise that one day we will have glorified resurrected bodies because of Jesus.

      1. Amen, big brother. We’re hanging in there together! I’m proud of you, too!

  3. Those are some tough questions. I appears you handled them well.

  4. “Why me” prayers lead to depression. “Lord, What do You want Me to Do” prayers lead to God’s directions. This is a post in and of itself, brother!

    1. Thank you David. Such prayers are a daily choice at times.

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