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Kevin Pringle is someone I admire and respect for his devotion to Jesus, his family, and to sharing the love of Jesus. He has been a pastor and currently has a ministry of traveling to proclaim the good news about Jesus. Kevin is available to speak in churches. Let me know in comments if interested.

I asked Kevin if I could interview him and he agreed. I am so thankful that he is doing this with me. We had a wonderful Zoom chat Wednesday night and discussed questions for our interview. I am sharing his answers unedited because I want you to hear HIS WORDS and HIS EXPERIENCE!!!

I will post the questions each Friday for the next several weeks. My hope is that by reading Kevin’s answers, it will help us to understand the experience of our Black neighbors, friends, and co-workers.

The first question Kevin answered is:

When were you first aware that you are black and how did it affect you?

 I grew up in a small town of about 33,000 people, where over 90% of the population were white.  My neighborhood was one of the poorest and most diverse.  Seeing individuals of different shades really never came into question until, as a first grader, I was unknowingly insulted.  

As I was walking to school I came to a crosswalk patrolled by two student crossing guards.  I’m not certain how old they were but in order to be a patrol-boy you had to be in at least 5th grade.  Both kids were white and myself, being very young naive I thought nothing of their color.  I cordially said, hello to the one nearest me and quickly realized his disdain for me. 

Instead of returning my greeting he turned up his lip as if to be disgusted. He then looked me up and down and said, “Why don’t you go home and wash your dirty skin!” 

At that age I didn’t understand the nature of evil but I certainly felt it!  His words were loud enough for the other guard to hear and garner a laugh from him.  I didn’t fully understand his mocking or “suggestion” but I definitely felt the weightiness of the offense; only because it was provoked by the darkness in his eyes and deep, angry tone in his voice coupled by the laughter of the other kid!

I sat in school the entire day wondering if I washed long and hard enough if it would work… I recall getting home that afternoon and wanting to take a bath.  It was the longest bath I had ever taken! So much so, it provoked my mom’s curiosity.  As she inquired, I explained to her that I was trying to get the black off!!!

Deeply saddened by my reply she was forced to have a conversation with me that she hoped she could delay. A conversation neither of us were ready for.

I learned an extremely valuable lesson that day.  My mom, bravely explained that there were certain things about me that would never change and I needed to be proud of who I was created to be.  She also exclaimed that as a black person, I couldn’t be average.  She admonished that in order for me to be accepted and to have success in our country I would have to strive for greatness!

Those words have never left me!!!

Thank you for reading. Look for part 2 next Friday. God Bless.

35 responses to “Let Their Voices Be Heard- An Interview with My Friend Pastor Kevin”

  1. Thanks for sharing
    Stay safe and healthy

  2. Thank you sharing this. My heart felt for the little boy who tried hard to wash away the black.
    Looking forward to the rest of the conversation.

    1. It is sad to think about a little boy going through that

  3. Oh boy that opened up the flood gates 😢so awful

    1. It is sad to think of a little boy experiencing that

  4. Thats heartbreaking to know people do that😪

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    Oh, my. That is absolutely heartbreaking. The ways we humans can be so cruel to each other is astoundung. I eagerly await the next installment.

    1. It is heartbreaking. Next one will be next Friday

  6. thank you for sharing this interview……..heart breaking words to read.

    1. Yes they are but also important to hear

  7. Thank you Matt for sharing, it is important to hear

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  9. That’s so sad. I don’t understand racism. Canada is such a melting pot. So is the US so I really don’t get it. One of my very first school friends was a little black girl. She invited me over to her house for lunch and I happily went and ate outside with her and her family. It’s a sweet memory.

    1. It is very sad. I am glad you have that sweet memory little sister 🙂

  10. Such a sad story. Thank you for sharing though.

  11. I love that you are doing this series. Hugs to both you and Pastor Kevin.

  12. Thanks for sharing Kevin’s story. Looking forward to part 2.

    1. Glad to share. I feel it is important.

  13. Matt, thanks for sharing Pastor Kevin’s interview. His witness to the voices he has faced is indeed thought-provoking.

  14. Thanks for putting it out in writing bro. I watched the clip and it was a pretty emotional one. I pray that the change we need comes through and this time around – complete.

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